Dating advice for the real world.
Unlike matchmakers, dating coaches do not arrange dates. Instead, they act as cheerleaders and advisers. Accenting the interesting and amazing characteristics you may or may not know you have, and of course pointing out your less than helpful characteristics as well.
Their messages are similar: Stay positive! Be open-minded!
Dating Coaches and Matchmakers go together like peanut butter & jelly, salt & pepper, wine & cheese. You can get away with using just one but it won’t be nearly as effective! At Suncoast Singles our dating coaches work closely with our clients to help them make the most of their program!
There have been many tests and studies conducted that shows the effectiveness of having a dating coach. In fact, many of our clients who are now happy and in love, state they never would have been open to trying a new “type of partner” had they not had a dating coach working closely with them, explaining the benefits of looking outside the box.
As creatures of habits we generally are drawn to the same type of person that we have been with previously even if rationally we know that it hasn’t worked for us! This can be seen with the woman who is attracted to body builders and keeps choosing men with big muscles who work out even though she has had several failed relationships with men who have “this look” but have lacked other qualities that are important to her: (attentiveness, faithfulness, honesty etc.).
When she first sits down with her matchmaker she states she is looking for an attractive man who likes to work out A LOT. She is still searching for a man who is physically “her type”. Upon working with her matchmaker and dating coach this particular lady agrees it is in her best interest to focus on guys who have more of the “important qualities” that truly make a difference when it comes to finding a long lasting and fulfilling relationship.
She ends up meeting and striking a lovely relationship with a fun guy who is educated, professional and while he is NOT a body builder. His personality is amazing and in time he shows her that he has the qualities she REALLY wanted and needed all along in a partner. It is the job of the dating coach to steer the client in the right direction. We never want someone to miss out on meeting the right person because they are still hung up on the past! You have probably heard that the very definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over and expecting different results!